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 Trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
(Proverbs 3:5)

 

Articles regarding those dealing with sexual addiction issues

 

Written by Karl

Benjamin's Standards of Care
My Confessional
Homosexuality
My Pornography Addiction
Our Friend, The Enemy
Things in Common Among Transsexuals
Am I Cured?
Straight Answers
Reasons Change Fails
Steps Towards Healing
A matter of Survival (part 1)
A matter of Survival (part 2)
A matter of Survival (part 3)
Tim or Tabatha?
Change Requires
 

 

reasons change fails

1. BLAMING OTHERS FOR THE EVENTS AND EMOTIONS.

2. BLAMING SELF: "NOT ABLE!"

3. CHOOSING WRONG GOALS: TOO LOFTY EXPECTATIONS.

4. TRYING TO TAKE SHORT-CUTS.

5. NEGLECTING LITTLE THINGS.
Seeing only the big picture

6. DOING OLD THINGS: ISOLATION, FEELINGS, THOUGHTS, ACTIONS.

7. NOT ACCEPTING OR GIVING FORGIVENESS.

8. ILLUSION OF SUCCESS: "I'M HEALED!"

9. MAKING IT HARDER THAN IT REALLY IS.

10. QUITTING TOO SOON!!